She rented a cheap motel room for us. I had given guys blowjobs and been fingered and made out with people so I thought "no big deal! He shows us how to suck the life force out of someone, by sucking on said girl dance partner of mine. He was a virgin, too. Her brother walked in, she grabbed the blanket to cover herself up and quickly jumped off of me, and for some reason I quickly grabbed my phone and pretended I was texting. I eventually shuffle back into my room, and we fall asleep together. It was his first time too.
We are not built the same as men, but the lens through which we talk about sex or see it is often male.
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We got to the point of either we do or we don't, so we did. I figured I just had to be gay. I'm not ashamed of having sex and I'm not ashamed of my body anymore. We had been dating for a few months, and we had talked about having sex for a while—we both knew it was the right time. A few minutes later, I had a sweaty guy on top of me, breathing heavily saying how amazing it felt.